Friendship

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 Friendship ,according to Wikipedia, is “A relationship of mutual affection between people. It is a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an association, and has been studied in academic fields such as communication, sociology, social psychology, anthropology, and philosophy.” 


Everybody in this world has friends. Be it another random person your age, classmate, coworker, sibling, parents, LITERALLY ANYBODY. It is kind of a blessing in disguise. Having a friend is just fun. Strangely there are even types of friend, I mean that is straight up weird. We have best friends at work, college friends. In my opinion friends are just those who we feel you can share ANY PIECE OF INFORMATION with. If something happens we just have to share that weird or good or bad or irritating moment with them. 


Friends are the people you tell a “Don’t tell this to anyone” thing. You feel safe around friends. Not jealous or pressurised like they show in movies. There should be nothing as peer pressure because if you feel this “pressure” from them, how are they even friends?


The amount of inside jokes friends have is insane. Me and my best friend, Selena (Made up name because I do not want to disclose actual names) also like any other set of friends have a crazy amount of inside jokes. Once we had this story to study in school. The main character was Uncle Podger. Oddly enough that is one of our thousand inside jokes.


There is this really HILARIOUS incident which cracks me up every time. Once In the olden days (2019) we were in school. It was lunch break. Selena and I went to the other class to visit Taylor ( also made up name). The teacher was still in the class packing her stuff to leave the class. So Taylor came to us. Taylor was pulling Selena's nose for fun. The teacher was leaving and she walked past us when Taylor was pulling Selena's nose. The teacher was weirded out and I was laughing like a crazy person.


Friends are those who you can give improvements and honest comments without even flinching. That's the best part of having a blog with friends.


Friends are not those who take advantage of you, but those whom you give advantage of your best qualities. I personally feel blessed to have such wonderful friends with whom I can share anything that comes to mind. Pieces of advice: if you don't like someone or feel pressurised by them they are not your friend


There can be some fights or disagreements between friends. But that’s 90% of the time because of a stupid misunderstanding or difference in opinions. That's totally normal.


Ending this blog, I would like to say that surrounding yourself with wonderful friends that get you if the best thing you can ever do. It's a blessing in disguise.


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